In the marriage ceremony, that moment when falling in love is replaced by the arduous drama of staying in love, the words “in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, till death do us part” set love in the temporal context in which it achieves its meaning. As time begins to elapse, one begins to love the other because they have shared the same experience… Selves may not intertwine; but lives do, and shared memory becomes as much of a bond as the bond of the flesh.
- Michael Ignatieff
A totally amazing month has just passed. I love you.